Sylvia Daniels Ray Books

Sylvia and her husband Clarence

About Sylvia's Love for Writing and Relationships

Sylvia was asked why she wrote her first book Love Conversations and what she hopes her readers will experience once they read it.

​"Life and relationships aren't always easy and sometimes we all need a little help with navigating relationship dynamics. The problem is we are often asked by society, social media, and our peers to "fake it until you make it". Unfortunately, people often end up faking it and never making it. They live quiet lives of desperation because they never deal with the real issues going on behind the scenes.  The truth is, at one time I lived a quiet, desperate life in a dying marriage. It looked good but it wasn't good. I faked it until I almost lost myself in the process. Faking never works. Never!

I wrote my first book because I wanted to give my readers tools that will help them have open, honest, and transparent discussions about how they and the people in their lives feel about relationships.  Love Conversations is about boldly kicking the door open and dealing with the  good or bad!  Whether the discussions are about singleness, dating, married life, your sex life, cheating, living through abuse and trauma, dealing with the loss of a relationship, or finding love again - I feel the foundation for having healthy relationships (platonic or otherwise) begins with having the right conversations. I also feel the firmest foundation for a healthy relationship begins with getting God's heart about what he desires for relationships - starting with the relationship we have with Him.

My goal is to write books and hold forums to spur the conversations we need to make our relationship with God, our families, friends, communities and societies healthy."